This worksheet is designed to help you get the most out of your one-on-one sessions by carefully taking notes and actively listening, ensuring you generate higher quality referrals for your fellow BNI members. Remember, Giver’s Gain!

Member Name: _______________________
Date: _______________________

  1. What are your key goals for your company?
    Understanding their long-term vision will help you align potential referrals with their business objectives.
  2. What achievements have you accomplished with your business?
    Learn about their past successes to better identify prospects that fit their proven areas of expertise.
  3. What are your strengths within the company?
    Discover their core competencies, so you can refer clients that need their unique skills and services.
  4. Describe three of your best clients.
    This helps you get a clearer picture of their ideal client profile and the type of businesses they successfully serve.
  5. Who are your ideal contact sphere professionals not yet in the chapter?
    Identifying strategic partners outside the chapter allows you to look for those who could enhance their network.
  6. Are you confident in your infomercial/memory hook? (Yes/No). If “No,” would you like help or ideas to improve it?
    A strong, memorable pitch is crucial for leaving a lasting impression, so offering assistance can sharpen their message.
  7. What key phrases should I listen for to recognize a potential referral for you?
    These phrases act as verbal cues that will help you know when to introduce their services during conversations.
  8. How can I qualify a referral to ensure they’re serious about working with you?
    Understanding their criteria for qualified leads will help you filter out non-serious prospects, ensuring better conversions.
  9. What does NOT make a good referral for you?
    Clarifying what doesn’t work for them prevents misalignment and wasted effort on poor-quality referrals.
  10. In what other ways can I support you?
    This opens the door for additional collaboration, offering help in areas beyond referrals to strengthen the partnership.

Tips for Success:

  • Respect each other’s time by staying focused and prepared for the conversation.
  • Be a good listener to gain valuable insights about your partner’s needs and preferences.
  • Stay positive and provide encouragement, fostering a productive and uplifting dialogue.
  • Focus on the discussion by avoiding distractions and keeping the conversation on track.
  • Actively work on finding quality referrals based on the information you gather to fulfill the “Giver’s Gain” philosophy.